When you find yourself in a situation where you feel envy you will have to exercise self control, i.e. willpower. The problem: You have a limited supply of self control.
We propose that social comparisons with better-off others trigger an impulsive envious response that entails a behavioral tendency to strive for their superior good. However, given that the experience of envy is painful, self-threatening, and met with social disapproval, people typically attempt to control their envious reactions. Doing so requires self-control capacities, so that envious reactions may only become apparent if self-control is taxed. In line with these predictions, four experiments show that only when self-control resources are taxed, upward comparisons elicit envy paired with an increased willingness to pay for, to spontaneously purchase and to impulsively approach the superior good.
As John Tierney and Roy Baumeister explain in their book Willpower, your ability to control yourself is a limited and very valuable resource. One way to avoid draining your willpower: stay off Facebook. Avoid the envy that depletes your self control.
Witnessing friends' vacations, love lives and work successes on Facebook can cause envy and trigger feelings of misery and loneliness, according to German researchers.
Plus, if you are active on Facebook you run the risk of brutal unfriending. This causes people to avoid each other in real life.
Facebook makes millions of people miserable. Why do that to yourself?
The feeling of envy causes many people to favor wealth redistribution. I think the depletion of willpower that envy causes and the redistributionist impulse it encourages in politics is an argument for making rich people hide their wealth.
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